My Personal Testimony about our Past, Present and Future

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“I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow.”

1 Corinthians 3:6

Every once in a while we come to a point in our lives where we take time to reflect on our past, consider our present circumstances, and ponder the future. FaithLife Ministries has been my life and passion since our beginning in 2001.  I have been blessed beyond measure by God who called me into this ministry of training and equipping pastors and church leaders in the majority world. When it began I had no idea what, or where, it would lead to. Nor did I stop to consider the cost, the struggles, or the perseverance it would take to get to where we are today. However, when I do take stock of where our ministry is today, I am humbled just to be a small part of what God is doing. And the future before us is as unknown as it was when we started.

But there has been one constant throughout the years – God! He has been the guiding force in the ministry and the One I have tried to look to for wisdom, counsel and provision. And He has never failed me or this ministry!

They say hindsight is 20/20, so it is not that hard for me to look back and see that all that this ministry has accomplished has been through the Lord’s Hand. I have simply been His instrument and the one He has called and willed for the purpose of building up His Church around the world through the training of pastors and church leaders. I still don’t know why He chose me, but He did. And I’ve spent the past 19 years trying to be obedient to that call and His purpose. And as I look back and reflect on how far we have come, I am simply astounded and amazed at what He has done with the little I had to offer. Like the feeding of the 5,000, God took the “few fish and bread” I had to give and has used it to feed so many (ref. Matthew 14:15-21).

The road here has not always been easy, however. We had fund shortages, difficulties recruiting people, travel challenges, health issues, miscommunications and a myriad of other obstacles that caused me at times to question our plan and purpose. But I also knew that we had His Holy Spirit to help us overcome them. And through it all, God provided, God sustained and God proved faithful to His Word to “never leave us or forsake us” (Hebrews 13:5). And when I thought that I might have failed Him, He reminded me that “many are the plans in a man’s heart, but it’s the Lord purpose that prevails.” (Proverbs 19:26). So I stand here today knowing that God has used this ministry to bring about His purposes for it. Of that I have no doubt!

As I look around today and consider all the training that is taking place around the world through our Global Trainer Network I realize that I am not the only person that God has called into this ministry. God has sent us laborers to work in this “vineyard” alongside of me to produce the harvest He desires. Perhaps the most important lesson God has taught me the past few years is that I was never meant to do this alone. Once He revealed that truth to me the ministry has been able to expand, multiply and grow faster and more effectively than it otherwise would have. As the Apostle Paul said in 1 Corinthians 3:6, “I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow!” Because of this truth, this ministry is stronger and has deeper roots today. And I treasure the relationships I have with all of our trainers and training hosts that we have had over the years who are co-laborers with me in this global vineyard!

I am confident that the future of this ministry is in great hands, because it is in God’s Hands, as it always has been! And as I contemplate the future, pray for God’s vision, and listen for His voice, I know He will speak to me and “reveal His thoughts” to me (ref. Amos 4:13) for the future of this ministry. The vision is not ours, it’s His. And whatever that vision is, He will not only give it to us but He will provide the resources needed to accomplish it as well! Although the future is not ours to see (as the old song goes), it is ours to inherit if we follow Him and His call!

I was confirmed in my faith at the age of 14. My Confirmation Bible verse was Matthew 28:20 that says, “…and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always to the very end of the age.” Though I did not know it then, I can’t help but believe with certainty that I am doing exactly what He planned for me to do and acknowledge that He has been with me and guiding me every step of the way!

Thank you, Jesus, and praise God from whom all blessings flow!

Managing Money

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“You cannot serve both God and money.”

Matthew 6:24

Virtually all ministries require some level of finances to operate.  Typically, they rely on the donations and gifts that they receive from their members or followers.  As a church leader, you have the responsibility to make sure that all donations are recorded accurately and that all church expenses are legitimate and accounted for properly.  This is typically a legal mandate, but, more importantly, it is a Biblical expectation as well (Luke 16:11-12)!  Managing your church or ministry finances well demonstrates to God, and your membership or followers, that you are trustworthy.  The Bible warns us that failure to maintain the highest level of integrity in your finances only leads to ruin and suffering. 

Why is managing money well so important? First of all, the Bible says that money can cause many problems. 1 Timothy 6:10 says that “the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil.”  Poor money management leads to stress and other sins (lying, stealing, coveting, etc.) and will destroy relationships. And it will usually not go uncovered (“The man of integrity walks securely, but he who takes crooked paths will be found out.” – Proverbs 10:9). We must remember that money is not the goal. It’s only the means to a goal. It is a resource that we use to achieve a goal and we know that God will provide the resources we need to do His work. We must also be aware that the power of money over people is well documented and often results in bad decisions or even imprisonment. We are also warned that money can become a god or idol of worship (Matthew 6:24) and to pursue money is to pursue a false god. We lose our freedom in Christ by becoming a slave to money.

Secondly, using money inappropriately is cheating God. Treasures given to the church are given to God. Everything we have is His and, we are only His stewards (managers) of what He provides. Misuse of money is the same as stealing it. We rob from the church and we rob from God (Malachi 3:8) when we misuse what He has provided to us.

Thirdly, poor money management is poor stewardship. Poor stewardship is not managing money (God’s resource) wisely. Using God’s gifts wisely by investing them effectively produces fruit for the Kingdom and glorifies God (Parable of the Talents – Matthew 25:14-30).

Finally, good money management builds trust with our church members or ministry followers. Jesus said, “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much. So if you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches?  (Luke 16:10-11). So when we manage money well we are demonstrating to others that we are trustworthy.

Here are 8 basic principles of managing money:

  1. Be content with what God provides you. Ask Him only for what you need and trust God to provide for your needs (“Don’t collect any more than you are required to.  Don’t extort money and don’t accuse people falsely-be content with your pay.” –Luke 3:13-14).
  2. Don’t use money for purposes it wasn’t intended for. Don’t ask for money for one thing then use it for another purpose. Honor people’s giving.
  3. Don’t use church money for personal desires. Never take money from the church to satisfy a personal desire or want. Do not give church money to others for personal desires or wants. All expenses should have a legitimate ministry purpose.
  4. Account for all money received. Record ALL income and gifts received. Record the requested purpose of all donations and honor them. Keep accurate and up-to-date records.
  5. Account for all money spent. Record ALL expenses and keep receipts for them. Make sure to write the purpose and other details on the receipt if it is not shown.
  6. Establish procedures for large purchases. Do not allow one person the authority to make a large purchase. Establish a check and balance system for all major expenses and require an approval form or other document to dispense large amounts of money.
  7. Regularly publish a financial statement. Include the amount received, the amount spent, and the balance on hand. This can be done monthly, quarterly or annually.
  8. Utilize independent people to periodically analyze church finances. Have someone from outside the church review your financial records to ensure accuracy and compliance or have an annual financial audit done.

There are 4 ways we as leaders can practice good money management in the church. First, teach the Biblical principle of tithing (10%).  Deuteronomy 14:22 says, “Be sure to set aside a tenth of all that your fields produce each year.” Lead by example – be a tither yourself and encourage first fruits giving (Proverbs 3:9). Second, demonstrate financial integrity by recording ALL income and expenses, paying your debts first and putting procedures in place to audit and review church finances. Third, trust God to provide for your needs. He will give you what you need because God cares for His people (“Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment.” – 1 Timothy 6:17). Fourth, allow members to see church finances. Do not hide your finances from your church members and be open and honest about all receipts and expenses.

If we practice these principles we will experience some great benefits. First, we will build trust with our church members. If they trust us with money, they will trust us with other things and are more likely to follow us. Second, we will avoid potential serious problems and remain a good example to our flock. Third, we will learn what the power of God can do and see first-hand how God provides for our every need.

(taken from chapter 10 of our Management for Church Leaders™ Volume #1 Training Manual © 2010)

Our Training Expands to the Middle East!

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We are pleased to announce that our Management for Church Leaders™ (MCL) training has formally reached the Middle East with our recent training in Cairo, Egypt! Egypt was an ideal location as it is safe to travel to and has an estimated 25% Christian population. Although the training material was in Arabic and we had translators, about 50% of Egyptians speak English.

The training conference was held October 4-6th and was attended by 68 pastors and church leaders from Egypt, Lebanon and South Sudan. We were invited to bring our training there by Dr. Wahid Wahba, founder and president of the Middle East Leadership Training Institute (MELTI). I was referred to Dr. Wahba by Ali Khalil, a pastoral trainer from Lebanon that I met at the Global Proclamation Congress for Pastoral Training in Bangkok in June, 2016.

MELTI has been working in the region for 20 years and has provided Christian training to pastors and church leaders throughout the Middle East through their training center in Cairo. A few of their instructors attended our training and will now be able to teach our MCL material along with their other training material where needed. They are also considering adding our MCL training to their regular training curriculum.

What was particularly encouraging about this conference was that before the 2nd day of training was completed 4 attendees asked for copies of our MCL Training Manual in English along with the MCL Trainer Manual in English with the goal of teaching our training to others. We have provided them with this material and will be following up with them on their training results in the months ahead. One of these individuals is from Lebanon who also has his own training ministry and goes to many other nations in the region. We are hopeful that he will consider being part of our Global Trainer Network as well and include our training where applicable and useful.

During our training we also discovered a few translation errors that are now being corrected by MELTI so as to improve the training in Arabic. They will also provide an Arabic translation of our MCL Trainer Manual so that those who do not speak English can teach our training as well.

We have now planted the seed of our training in Egypt and look forward to watching how God uses us, and those we have trained, to expand His Kingdom in the Middle East! As the Apostle Paul says in 1 Corinthians 3:7, “I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow.”

We thank God for this wonderful opportunity to spread our training throughout the Middle East and look forward to seeing the fruit that is produced from this one seed of training!

To God alone be the glory!!

Divorcing God

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“But whoever disowns me before men, I will disown him before my Father in heaven.”

Matthew 10:33

Recently, several high profile Christian leaders have renounced their faith and have said that they no longer consider themselves to be a Christian. Because of their status or visibility they have also done so very publicly. It makes me wonder why they chose to make a public announcement about it.  Why not just step down from leadership, take a sabbatical, or just take some time to pray and rebuild their relationship with the Lord?   Have they really given up on God? Has all of their time and effort put into ministry really caused them to doubt God and His promises?

I’m sure many Christians sometimes stop going to church, question their faith, or lack the zeal for the Lord they once had. That has happened to me on occasion as well. Faith is a journey that has many ups and downs. It is not always smooth and going forward. In life there are struggles that we all face (John 16:33). In those times we sometimes falter or go backwards in our faith. But it is often temporary until the Lord brings us back to Him again.

Most Christians don’t go public or have a platform they use to tell others about their fall away from faith and the Lord they once served with great devotion. Instead, they generally keep it to themselves or reach out to others in confidence for counsel and assurance. And if they do somehow lose their faith they do it quietly. They just stop going to church and disconnect from church relationships and activities. Sadly, sometimes the church doesn’t even notice.

Our faith and relationship with God is like a marriage. As a matter of fact, Jesus referred to himself as the bridegroom and the Church as His bride in the parable of the Ten Virgins (Matthew 25:1). When we meet someone we think might be a good marriage partner, we spend time with them, try to please them, and eventually discuss joining our lives together in marriage. Once married, we begin to build our lives together and have children. But sometimes marriages fall apart and end in divorce as the two that earlier had become one drift apart and go back to living separate lives.

So when someone falls away from faith it is like divorcing God. The person no longer has the love for God they once had, they don’t feel the love God has for them, or they simply drift apart because they don’t spend time together. Thus, they want out of the relationship. Divorce in our secular world is often very messy, complicated and ends up hurting many people. Divorcing God has the same effect. And the more public the divorce the more people it usually hurts.

Faith, like a marriage, is built on trust and a focus on the other person in the relationship. If we don’t trust God or we stop doing things that please Him we can easily find ourselves questioning our faith and our relationship with Him. Faith, like a marriage, needs constant work for it to be successful. Taking that relationship for granted or not putting the time into it that’s needed often results in a broken relationship. In our world, either person in the marriage relationship can ask for a divorce. But with faith, God will NEVER divorce us or break that relationship. Only we can divorce God!

So how do we keep our relationship with God strong and avoid divorcing Him from our lives?

In order to have a healthy relationship with God we must focus on 3 things. Jesus told us what they were when asked what the greatest commandment was. He replied, “Love the Lord God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” (Matthew 22:37)

So first, we are to love God with all of our heart. We must have an emotional, heart-felt connection to God because of what God has first done for us (1 John 4:19). That means we must love Him by worshiping Him and doing what pleases Him. If we don’t feel His love for us in our own heart then we are less likely to give our heart to Him in return. When we truly love someone we feel an emotional connection to their heart. We hurt with them, we cry with them, we rejoice with them and we laugh with them. Without that heart-to-heart emotional connection we are far more likely to drift away in that relationship.

Second, we must love Him with all of our soul. We must have a spiritual connection to God as well, and that comes from the indwelling of the Holy Spirit within us. It is His Holy Spirit that gives us faith (1 John 4:13). But we must also develop that spiritual connection by talking to God (prayer) and letting His Spirit guide and direct us in our actions. We cannot do this on our own but only through His Holy Spirit. As the Lord said to the prophet Zechariah, “Not by might, not by power, but by my Spirit says the Lord.” (Zechariah 4:6).

Thirdly, we must also love him with our mind. That means we must read His Word and meditate on it so that we gain His wisdom (Proverbs 4:7). We don’t just accept God in our heart and soul but we also accept Him in our mind. It is logical to have faith in God, even though we cannot see Him. His Word makes sense to us because He created us and it is the Truth. He created us in His image and so we have the capacity to believe His Word and place our faith in Him, even though we can’t understand all of it. But when we earnestly seek Him, He will help us to understand (Amos 4:13).

In many marriages there are always outsiders who tell us to get out, that we’re better off on our own, and that the other person isn’t holding up their end of the marriage. With faith, that person is Satan, who continues to lie to us and tell us that God doesn’t love us or that He isn’t doing what He promised. Satan tries to convince us that we’re not getting what we want or desire from God. Satan always puts the focus on us and never God. So we must be on our guard against his schemes and attempts to separate us from God (Genesis 3:1, 1 Peter 5:8).

It saddens me greatly when fellow believers fall away from God or divorce Him from their lives. We must walk beside them to encourage them to “stand firm in the faith” (1 Corinthians 13:16) and “to trust in Him and lean not on our own understanding” (Proverbs 3:5-6). We must tell them that if they draw near to God, He will draw near to them (James 4:8). We must remind them to persevere and to finish the race so that they will receive the crown of eternal life that God has promised them (James 1:12). That’s His promise and God always keeps His promises!

Delegation & Accountability

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“Nothing in all creation is hidden from God’s sight.  Everything is uncovered and laid bare before the eyes of Him to whom we must give account”
Hebrews 4:13

In order to be an effective leader, one must learn to properly delegate responsibilities and hold others accountable to their commitments.  Since we cannot do all of the ministry by ourselves, especially as our ministry grows, we will need to delegate some of our responsibilities to others if we are to get the work done that the Lord requires of us.  Learning how to delegate effectively and then hold others accountable will produce action and not excuses.  

Delegation

“Brothers, choose seven men from among you who are known to be full of the Spirit and wisdom.  We will turn this responsibility over to them and will give our attention to prayer and the ministry of the Word.”

Acts 6:3-4

Delegation is the act of empowering someone to act for another. When we delegate something to someone else we are asking them to take responsibility for getting something done on our behalf. There are several reasons why we would delegate responsibility to others.

First, delegation allows us to spread the workload so that more work can be accomplished in less time. Second, we delegate so that we can enlist the help of others. This enables us to have others participate in ministry and to utilize their skills. Third, we delegate to others to expand our ministry. This gives us time for other ministry work or to pursue other ministry passions and opportunities. Finally, we delegate to others to develop them as potential leaders. We do this to train others for ministry, enable ministry leadership succession, and to build the kingdom of God.

Here are 6 principles of delegation:

  1. Delegate only to qualified leaders

“And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable men who will also be qualified to teach others.”

2 Timothy 2:2

Delegate to people of character, people of faith, and people full of the Holy Spirit.

2. Delegate to trained people

Make sure they are trained for the task at hand and provide training, if necessary, before you delegate.

3. Delegate responsibility, not activities

Give them freedom to manage as they feel appropriate. Do not dictate the process but allow them to use their own style to accomplish goals.

4. Delegate authority with responsibility

Do not hold back your authority from them. Let them make decisions within the authority you give them. Gently guide, but do not decide.

5. Provide deadlines for results

Specify project time frames for completion and make sure deadlines are agreed to. Be firm but flexible on deadlines and allow for changes due to unforeseen circumstances. Make sure new deadlines are also agreed to.

6. Follow up to answer questions or provide support

Provide ongoing guidance and encouragement.

When you delegate, first decide which project or responsibility to delegate to someone. It could be a project that you want someone else to lead or a responsibility that you do not have time to lead. Second, choose the leader wisely. Select only qualified, trained or experienced leaders. Third, communicate your expectations to them. Agree on goals & objectives and specify outputs & results. Fourth, give deadlines and specify desired completion dates. Make sure they commit to meeting the deadlines and monitor their progress to ensure deadlines will be met. Finally, provide support to them. Do not ignore them or leave them on their own. Give them encouragement along the way.

Accountability

“So then, each of us will give an account of himself to God.”

Romans 14:12

Accountability is an obligation or willingness to accept responsibility or to account for one’s actions. Leaders should never delegate responsibilities to others without holding them accountable. This is to ensure project success and the achievement of project goals, completing projects on time and meeting key project deadlines, developing the leadership skills of others and their decision making ability, and to build the leader’s confidence and trust in others.

Here are 4 basic principles of Accountability:

1.  Never delegate responsibility without accountability

It enables you to maintain control and tells them this project is important. It also shows them you are interested in what they do.

2.  Be specific in your expectations

Set deadlines for results and communicate clearly the results you expect. Write them down if necessary.

3.  Be diligent in your follow up

Check on their progress regularly and ask for status reports (weekly, monthly, etc.).  Expect results as promised and on-time.

4.  Be constructive in your feedback

Do not be overly critical and praise good work and effort. Offer your encouragement and support.

Holding someone accountable means that you first make sure objectives are clearly understood. Poor objectives will lead to poor results and potential project failure. Second, make sure deadlines are agreed to. Write them down if you have to and make sure you both agree to them. Third, ask for regular updates and status reports. Keep on top of the project and its progress and meet regularly to discuss project issues. Fourth, provide ongoing feedback and give your thoughts and comments on the progress. Fifth, praise and reward good effort and give them your encouragement. Finally, recognize success and short term achievements. Do it publicly if significant.

(taken from chapter 2 of our Management for Church Leaders™ Volume #2 Training Manual © 2010)

Patriotism and Christianity

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“Then he (Jesus) said to them, ‘Give to Caesar what is Caesar’s and to God what is God’s’.”
Matthew 22:21

As we celebrate our Independence Day in America, there is division on what it means to be a patriot. According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, the word patriot signifies a person who loves his or her country and is ready to boldly support and defend it (that meaning has endured since the word’s arrival in English in the 16th century). Many Americans support our nation despite its faults, desire to adhere to our Constitution and the intent of our founding fathers, and want to protect our values of liberty for all, individual work ethic, and respect for our laws. Patriotism appears to coincide with this group. 

But there are other Americans who claim that our Constitution needs to be changed to reflect a changing world, that our nation has historical faults it must now atone for, and that we need to have more progressive values such as diversity, open borders, and socialism in order to provide more fairness and equality for all citizens in work and income.  This group does not support our nation as it currently is but rather wants to change it to something else. This would suggest that they are not patriots, but revolutionaries.

As a Christian, my allegiance is to Christ first and foremost. I have freedom from sin and the assurance of eternal life through Christ’s sacrifice on the cross, which is of utmost importance to me personally. And I can take that to any nation on the earth and live my life accordingly. But as an American, I love my country, the freedoms and opportunities we have, and the principles and values upon which it was founded. I have traveled the world and visited many nations. I have lived in another country. But I do not desire to live anywhere else other than America! We have freedom from tyranny and oppression on this earth through our Constitution and our military. We have the world’s best system of justice, although it is far from perfect. We also have the opportunity to pursue education in any field, choose our work and become what God made us to be.

And while Christian principles are in our Constitution, our government cannot force Christianity on anyone nor prevent anyone from practicing their religion. Alexis de Tocqueville, in his book Democracy in America, said, “Liberty cannot be established without morality, nor morality without faith.” In other words, we need faith and Christian values in America if our nation and self-government are to survive. So there is very little conflict between the Christian faith and our Constitution and form of government.

So where is the conflict? The conflict comes from the revolutionaries who do not reflect what it means to be a patriot. They are the ones who want to change our constitution and do not support our nation’s history, foundations and values. They want to change America as we have known it.

So, why is Christianity now being attacked in America? Why are Christians suddenly facing persecution for their religious beliefs? And does one have to be a Christian to be an American patriot?

The reason Christianity is now being attacked stems from a misunderstanding of what our Constitution actually says about religion. Many secularists claim that there should be a separation between church and state, and that on that basis our government cannot have any Christian values or principles. However, this is not what our Constitution says. It simply says that the state cannot establish a religion for all citizens nor prevent the practice of any religion. All Americans are free to practice their religion, whether in government or in any other part of our society. Christians do have and must have a voice in our government and culture. We are free to share our values and thoughts and to pursue policies that encompass them. The secularists want to deny Christians that voice so that their values and policies prevail.

The reason Christians are suddenly facing persecution is because the progressive values of the secularists are based on individual preferences and not on any moral standards of behavior. Having no standards, such as the Bible, allows people to do what pleases them regardless of the impact on others. The Book of Judges from the Bible shows us exactly what happens when people think that way. According to Judges 21:25, “In those days Israel had no king; everyone did as he saw fit.” Without a standard for moral behavior a society will descend into chaos and destroy itself. Consequently, I believe that secularists do not want to have a standard of behavior, because that may not allow them to do what they choose to do. They do not want to be held accountable to God or anyone else. So they seek to have the Bible and Christian influence removed from our culture entirely.

Finally, being a patriot does not mean that someone has to be a Christian in America. A person can love our nation, support its military, have a strong work ethic, and enjoy its freedoms without being a Christian. I believe most Americans would agree. But there are some religions, such as Islam, that are not consistent with our laws and culture, and Americans would be wise to be wary of them.

The Bible does not speak a great deal about nations and patriotism. Rather it speaks of God’s love for us, our rebellion from Him, His mercy upon us, and His grace through Jesus Christ. It is all about us as individuals and how He wants us to have faith in Jesus and live our lives according to His Word. He wants us to live lives that are holy and obedient to Him, and to serve others in His name. But God did speak to the nation of Israel in 2 Chronicles 7:14 when He said that “if my people, who are called by my name, will humbles themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land.”

Let us humble ourselves so that God can bless America and heal our land! Amen!

Holy Spirit Moves in Nigerian Church!

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Pastor David Akinsanya

“In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness.”

Romans 8:26

I recently received this wonderful testimony from Pastor David Akinsanya from Lagos, Nigeria (photo) who went through our Management for Church Leaders self-training book and began to apply some of what we teach within his church. Here is his testimony of how God used it to impact his ministry and congregation:

“I have been experiencing tremendous positive changes in my leadership. I had to conduct a training for my under leaders last week Saturday from 6am-2pm. The outcome has been wonderful. I am blessed in my life by the Holy Spirit and the resources you sent to me. I am more conscious of Holy Spirit more than ever before in my life and ministry, and the results of this has been Awesome. Our Sunday service was a super Sunday because I committed the under-leaders to His Holy hands and He used them in a way that made me cry at my ignorance and what my pride has blindfolded me from seeing.

I quickly see my ugly picture and how I have been insensitive to His Leadership role and place in the church management, mostly in our church – HOUSEHOLD OF FAITH COVENANT CHURCH. The leaders (workers) were so excited and happy to be given a role to play in the kingdom assignment, a goal that I have been assigned by God. It was so visible that with the enthusiasm of each and every one of them that were given a role to perform for God during the service and you can see that they have long been waiting for this kind of mighty move in the church with the backing of the Holy Spirit as well as to be trained and to be trusted with such responsibilities. 

And you need to see the Joy of been allowed to use their God given gifts for the Lord. Oh Barry, Holy Spirit moved in a new dimension in our fellowship last week Sunday and I strongly believe IT IS A NEW DAWN!!!! You won’t believe how quickly people began to use their gifts with joy (for example, one of them walked up to me and said, “Pastor, the Lord Says you should not minister by sharing message today. Instead, you should let Brother Ruben take the message.”).  I said noted and I called the said  brother during the workers fellowship (which is where we workers always pray for one hour before the Sunday School and Main Service and commit everything during the service to God). I told him I was told that the Lord wants you to minister to us today, so please go prepare your message and whatever the Holy Spirit places in your heart please say it (HE MINISTERED USING THE TOPIC HOLY SPIRIT). 

It was a powerful Ministration (sermon), and with the backing of the Holy Spirit it made everyone present to tremble. I cannot but shed tears!!!! I only ministered during the service in the administration of the Holy Communion which we do often on the first Sunday of the month. This was the product or result of one day of training showing them the Scriptures on the place and role of leadership and Holy Spirit in Church Growth and Health as well as the role and place of the 3 types of workers in the church being (1) Congregation, Committed, and Core from your training material. All I did was to tell them what we all need to do to move to the next level now from that of being just a Congregation to being Committed members, and to keep developing ourselves and playing our role of going out (evangelism) according to Matthew 28:19-20. I returned all the Glory to God.

Things are gradually changing for the best. Thank you Holy Spirit and thank you Barry, for allowing God to use you and your training to minister to me.”

We are very grateful to David for sharing his testimony with us so that we could share it with you. To God alone be the glory!

Building Community in the Church

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“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up,
just as in fact you are doing.”

1 Thessalonians 5:11

An important and often unrecognized role of the church leader is to build community among those he or she leads.  Just as Christ surrounded Himself with his disciples and lived in fellowship with them, we too as leaders must develop a Christian community among our people as well.  We need to recognize that God desires that we work together in ministry, with each of us being a part of the Body of Christ.  No person can do all of the work of the ministry alone.  By developing a community of faithful believers we discover that together we are more powerful and productive than if we walk alone.  Ministry work is also filled with disappointments, difficulties, and spiritual attacks.  We need our brothers and sisters alongside of us to encourage us and support us, especially through the difficult times. 

There are 4 major reasons why we should build community within our churches. First,building community is following Jesus’ example. Jesus gathered his 12 disciples (Luke 6:12-16) and continually taught and mentored them. Jesus also often had fellowship with His disciples and made it a big part of his ministry. Second, we need to develop a sense of belonging for our church members. They all desire to feel a part of the church and to participate in the life of the church according to their gifts and skills. They also desire to feel wanted or needed. Third, we should encourage fellowship among members so they build relationships with other church members. We all need others to love and support us and especially need a Christian brother or sister to turn to in times of trouble. Finally, we need to build community in order to create regular contact with our church members. Friendship can only develop with regular interaction. Loss of contact generally produces a loss of interest.

Why is building community in our churches so important?  It’s because God’s church on earth is relational.  We all have a relationship to our Lord as well as a relationship to each other as children of God. These relationships form the foundation of our Christian faith. We are called to love God and love one another (Matthew 22:37-40). Additionally, we continually need encouragement in our faith journey. None of us measures up to God’s standards (“All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” – Romans 3:23) and we all struggle daily with sin (“Anyone, then, who knows the good he ought to do and doesn’t do it, sins.” – James 4:17). Faith is a process, not a destination. We are also the ‘Body’ of Christ where we are given an identity and sense of belonging (“Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.”  – 1 Corinthians 12:27). Together with one another we also have a defense against Satan’s attacks (“Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves.  A chord of three strands is not quickly broken.” – Ecclesiastes 4:12). Finally, we also need accountability in our faith. We need others to sometimes help us see our sin in order to correct and protect us. We also need the support and love of others during the trials we face in our lives.

So how exactly do we go about building community? Here are some steps to help us build a stronger community of believers in our churches:

1.  First and foremost, we must focus on Christ. We should build on the cornerstone, which is Jesus, and remember that He is the common link, not the church itself. Jesus should be at the center of everything (“Therefore, holy brothers, who share in the heavenly calling, fix your thoughts on Jesus, the apostle and high priest whom we confess.”  – Hebrews 3:1).

2.  Develop and encourage relationships.  Be a leader of leaders and set an example for others on how to build relationships. Be a “connector” by helping people build relationships with one another. Track member connections so it is possible to determine how people are connected to one another and who may be at risk of becoming disconnected (those with few or no connections).

3.  Encourage teamwork. Organize teams to accomplish goals and consider putting people who are not connected together on a team to create more interaction and relationships. Assign projects that require people to seek others to help them and utilize team-building exercises and activities to facilitate that.

4. Utilize a small group ministry.  Small groups will act like teams. They help build stronger and deeper relationships and provide a means for accountability and care.

5.  Provide regular fellowship opportunities. It will create an environment for interaction and will keep people connected to each other. Remember that Jesus often broke bread with his disciples and ministered and taught during fellowship. We should follow His example!

Building Community within our churches is an important role of the church leader. It strengthens the ministry of the church and enables church members to have Christian relationships that support and encourage them in their faith. Without these relationships a church can easily fall apart or see its members disconnect from the Body of Christ.

We encourage all church leaders to pray for, and works towards, building a strong community and to keep track of how church members are connected to the church and to one another. Having such information will help church leaders spot disengaged members before they disconnect from the church. As I was often taught in my marketing career, it is always easier to keep a customer than to try and win them back!

(taken from chapter 5 of our Management for Church Leaders™ Volume #2 Training Manual © 2010)

Traveling With God

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“I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.”

John 10:10

I travel on airplanes a lot, mostly internationally, and I usually request a seat with more legroom because I am quite tall and a regular economy seat is just too small for me, especially on longer flights. So I am willing to pay a higher price for a more comfortable seat. Recently I was upgraded to business class (first class on most aircraft nowadays) on a 10 hour flight back to Atlanta from Rome and I felt truly blessed to get a better class of service with even more comfort for such a long flight. My status as a regular frequent flyer with Delta was the reason, as well as an overbooked economy section, I suspect. 

In the airline industry today there are generally 4 classes of service: Basic Economy (no frills), Regular Economy, Economy Comfort, and First Class. Each passenger has the option to choose which class of service they want to purchase. Of course, the price goes up for each class of service. Additionally, passengers in economy class on some airlines now pay for other services they may desire, such as snacks, drinks, baggage, specific seating, boarding priority, etc., especially on domestic flights. But I am also noticing this more and more on domestic and international flights in other countries as well. The point is that we all make choices on how we want to travel when we fly somewhere.

It got me to thinking about our spiritual life and how similar it is to choosing how we like to fly.  As Christians, when we are on our faith journey and traveling with God, which spiritual “class of service” do we choose? 

Do we like the basic economy, no frills sort of faith journey where we acknowledge God and Jesus as our savior but don’t really care about any of the extras he offers, like worship, prayer, serving others or sharing our faith?  We can still rest in the knowledge that Jesus dies for our sins and we are saved by faith, but as James 2:17 says, “In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.” In other words, traveling with God in a “no frills” way results in a life that is missing out on the blessings and abundance of God. You still arrive at your destination but it’s far less enjoyable than it could be.

What if our faith journey is like regular economy? That seems to be the place that most people start when they fly somewhere. They want to get to their destination and still enjoy a few benefits. And that’s likely true for a Christian’s faith journey as well. Our faith provides for our salvation and we likely attend church and go to worship, but that’s it. Like the airplane traveler we are content to have our seat and entertainment while on the journey but not much else. When traveling with God in a “regular economy” way we don’t get to experience the joy and blessings that come from prayer, serving others and sharing our faith. As a result, our faith journey becomes mundane and less exciting than what it could be.

I regularly fly economy comfort class (for the extra legroom) and I’ve wondered if some travelers even consider it because there are often empty seats in this section of the plane. If someone is tall or would just like more room and better service I would think they too would want to be in this section.  Those that do choose to fly economy comfort are aware of the extra benefits (more legroom, free drinks, early boarding, etc.) and they are happy to pay the extra fee for them. Similarly, those who choose to travel with God in an “economy comfort” way recognize the benefits of prayer, serving others and witnessing their faith.  And they receive the blessings and joy that come from them. But they also know there is something more. The economy comfort traveler can see ahead into first class and knows that there is another way to travel that has even more room, higher quality meals, better service, and is the most comfortable and best way to travel. If everyone could fly first class they certainly would!

On many of the international flights I fly the first class section is not always full, mostly because of the high price. Its cost is often 5 times higher than regular economy. Many travelers just cannot afford the cost. Traveling with God in a “first class” way also carries with it a high price. But the cost is not money – it’s our time and our priorities. Jesus said in Luke 14:33, “In the same way, any of you who does not give up everything he has cannot be my disciple.”  Like many airline travelers, most Christians do not choose to travel “first class” with God because of the high cost, often settling for something less. Traveling “first class” with God means giving up our desires and instead living our life for Him and serving others. It also means being a minister and missionary for Him wherever we go. According to Jesus it’s the only way to truly experience the abundant life God has for each of us. It’s also the best way for us as Christians to live out our faith!

So, which class of service are you in on your faith journey? If you truly want to experience the abundant life that Jesus promises to every Believer then you must choose to travel first class with God! As the current television ad for Hulu says, “Never fly first class, it will ruin flying economy class forever!” It’s the same with God. Once you’ve experienced traveling first class with Him you will never want to travel with Him any other way again!

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Spiritual Reproduction

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“And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable men who will also be qualified to teach others.”

2 Timothy 2:2

In Matthew 28:19 Jesus commands all His followers to “go and make disciples of all nations.” This is the Great Commission and is the sole purpose of the Church. But it is especially important for church leaders. They are not told to go make church members or purely invite people to come to church.  It goes far beyond that.  It means that they will need to invest themselves in the lives of those they witness to for Christ and bring to His altar.  However, they can’t possibly spend enough time with every church member or visitor they encounter. Therefore, they will need to multiply themselves.  They will need to make disciples who will make other disciples, and so multiply their efforts and grow their churches and God’s Kingdom. This is exactly what Paul told Timothy in his second letter to him in chapter 2, verse 2 above. Spiritual reproduction, then, is about making disciples.

The Christian faith is not meant to be practiced in private.  It is meant to be shared and given away! All Christians are called to witness their faith (Acts 1:8) and to be salt & light in their generation and culture (Matthew 5) in order to influence our world for Christ. We are the ones who are given the task to pass on the Christian faith to the generations that follow us and to make disciples who can make other disciples. This is the process of Spiritual Reproduction that God has given to us!

Spiritual reproduction does have priorities, however, especially for church leaders. The first priority is that a leader must disciple one’s own family first (“If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God’s church?” – 1 Timothy 3:5). The second priority is that a leader disciples other church members in order to develop more leaders who will also make disciples and to grow God’s kingdom through multiplication (“Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially those who belong to the family of believers.” – Galatians 6:10). The third priority is for leaders to disciple non-believers, such as friends, neighbors and co-workers.

It is important to note that Spiritual reproduction in the church starts with leaders. The primary focus of every church leader should be to make disciples, not just to lead their ministry or direct its activities. And this applies to every ministry leader (youth, worship, elder, etc.). Every leader is responsible for the faith of their followers and should incorporate Scripture into every meeting and teach what it means or how it applies to their lives. They should also model Christ to their followers.

Here, then, are 8 keys for church leaders to effectively make disciples:

1.  Desire – A leader must have the desire to disciple others. They must want to see Christ formed in others and be willing to give it their time and effort. (“My dear children, for whom I am in the pains of childbirth until Christ is formed in you.” – Galatians 4:19)

2.  Plan – A leader must develop a plan for discipleship. They must set goals, determine measurements, and develop a process to use. (“But the noble man makes noble plans, and by noble deeds he stands.”– Isaiah 32:8)

3.  Teach – A leader must teach the Word to others. They should tell and show others what God’s Word says and encourage personal Bible reading. (“All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” – 2 Tim. 3:16-17)

4.  Model – A leader must model Jesus to others. They must lead by example. (“Not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock.” – 1 Peter 5:3)

5.  Mentor – A leader should mentor others and identify a few people they can mentor and spend time with. (“Preach the Word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage – with great patience and careful instruction.”    – 2 Timothy 4:2)

6.  Participation – A leader finds ways to get followers to participate in ministry to build their awareness of God and strengthen their faith.    (“In the same way, faith by itself, if not accompanied by action, is dead.” – James 2:17)

7.  Testimonies – A leaderuses testimonies to encourage their followers and to also have them share what God is doing in their lives. (“But in your heart set apart Christ as Lord.  Always be prepared to give an answer to anyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have.  But do this with gentleness and respect.” – 1 Peter 3:15)

8. Small Groups – A leader encourages their followers to join small groups that can build stronger relationships and accountability. (“Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another.” – Hebrews 10:25)

Spiritual reproduction is very rewarding and an incredible blessing for us. It enables us to see how God works through us and leads others to Himself. There is no greater joy than seeing others join God’s family and experience the blessings He lavishly provides to all who call upon His name!

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